Here we are, eleven days into the new year. My two year old has already managed to sprain his ankle. Rusty's grandma's condition is improving with baby steps. My nose is still runny and stuffy. And my vehicle decided to get a flat. Rusty decided that instead of going and getting new tires, to just put on the mudders. Fine whatever. Except one of those is flat too from sitting for months. Lovely. I suppose he has it almost fixed by now.
The house is a mess. Of course. Seems like everytime I make a little headway, it gets worse than it was before. What I wouldnt give for some help with this mess. I swear I would give a kidney or something.
Now onto the things I have learned.
I have learned that you can not just move in with your friend for a while... I learned this in my younger days. Things might be dandy if you were roomies in college or whatever, however, after a while things start to really suck. The money fights begin. And when you decide to move out, its too late and the friendship is almost always ruined.
Now, I have tried to get this point across to a few family members. They don't want to listen to me. But they are slowly finding out that I am right. I guess its just something they had to learn on their own, but if they would have listened to me in the first place, they would still have their friend.
Also, people will always talk about you as long as you react to it. When you stop caring what they say and think and what rumors they are spreading, they will move on. I know that this is hard to do. Ignoring them. But if you do, eventually they wont have anything to say. I have found this first hand. Experience pays. And if they dont stop after you start ignoring it, its probably because they have nothing better to do and are unhappy with their own lives so they have to try to ruin other peoples' too.
I guess that is all for now.
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